Couples
Counselling
Couples come to see me when they are experiencing issues in their lives that are negatively affecting their relationship. Many wish to stay together, so want help to work through their difficulties in a safe and non-judgemental environment. However, some may wish to part and want to do so in the most amicable way to avoid deep emotional stress and pain for both themselves and those around them. This is especially important when there are children involved. In almost all cases, there is a productive way forward.
How Does it Work?
As a Couples Counsellor, I work to support both individuals as well as the couple relationship. There is a full exploration of each partner's experience of the relationship, allowing each person to express their own feelings and views whilst being genuinely and respectfully listened to by me and their partner. You can gain confidence in self-expression and insight through listening. I encourage each person to take responsibility for their own choices and actions, and work together to create different ways of understanding and meeting your own and each other’s needs.
You can learn to understand what is keeping you 'stuck' and discover ways of moving forward.
Sometimes, though starting with Couples Counselling, you may wish to explore Individual Counselling or Separation Counselling.
Get in touch...
If you have any questions, or would like to book an initial consultation, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.
‘I was sceptical when my wife suggested (well, insisted, really!) we have couples counselling. Working with you was an eye-opener, you helped us understand what was happening to cause our difficulties and how we could turn things around. I found our sessions interesting and even enjoyable. I especially appreciated your no-nonsense approach and sense of humour in helping us get back on track. Our relationship is greatly altered for the better.’
- Charlie and Kate